Win a Free Copy of "She Comes First"!

Arouse and Thrill Her through Foreplay, Coreplay, and Moreplay: Dr. Patti Talks to Ian Kerner, Celebrated Sex Therapist

Hi, I am Dr. Patti Taylor, of Expanded Lovemaking.com. On this week’s Expanded Lovemaking show, hear Dr. Ian Kerner, celebrated sex therapist, and best-selling author of She Comes First, discuss how to create juicier sexual connections.

Plus, I am having a special contest for this show: you can win a copy of She Comes First simply by posting a blog entry that I like. (Hint: make it cool, revealing, and/or interesting, and a response to what Ian is saying).

I will pick my 10 favorite blog entries, and by the start of next month, September 1, the writers of my 10 favorite posts will be selected to receive their very own copies. Here are some possible blog post topics:

What have you found are the different mental stimuli women truly crave most?

Do you like fantasies? How do you add them in to your bedroom scenarios?

Do you and your partners celebrate oral sex, and is this something you’d like more of in your relationship?

Do you have recommendations when you use your tongue, gums, hands, fingers, minds, eyes, and even vocal cords, and specific strokes during oral pleasuring?

Could less stimulation on your lover’s pussy ever feel better than more?

Or, make up your own post – it’s open season on this contest, as long as you are tasteful enough for me to print what you say!

Listen to Ian Kerner’s Show here:
http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/expanded-lovemaking/episode015-ian-kerner-foreplay-coreplay-moreplay.html


Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

Sexy Prostate Massage for Men

Prostate Massage: a Fun and Sexy Path to Pleasure: Dr. Patti Talks to Erika Thost, M.D., Founder of SexyProstate.com

Why should women be the only ones having delicious, mind-opening, body-warming, heart-tingling prostate massages? So many men would love to have one, and either don’t know they exist, don’t know how to ask for one, or, don’t know that their girlfriend just might be willing… or be totally delighted… to give them one.

Whether you are new to this subject of male prostate massage, also known as the “male g-sot”, or are just looking for a rollicking-good-fun discussion between Doctors Erika and Patti, (which alone is worth listening in for), stop on by and learn how you might expand your range of potential pleasures!

Check out learning way more about this very pleasurable gift to men — and to the givers of this delight as well! –Yours, Dr. Patti Taylor, of ExpandedLovemaking.com

Listen Here: www.personallifemedia.com/podcasts/expanded-lovemaking/episode014-erika-thost-prostate-massage.html


Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

Connect Fri Eve July 6 in San Fransciso

Dear Expanded Lovemakers,

Are you busy this Friday night, July 6? Do you live in or around San Francisco Bay Area?

I'm inviting you to a fun, educational, and experiential event.

Friday, July 6, 2007
7:45 pm to 10:00 pm, prompt starting time
Downtown San Francisco - 735 Montgomery (at Jackson)
Cost is $15 per person at door.

Connect with current friends and MEET wonderful new ones.

And while you're at it...Learn skills to develop your sensual life with techniques and practices derived from the Kashmiri Shaivist Tantra traditions.


OK, Here's the story: For a long time, I've had a dream that people could find a venue in which to connect with one another, without expectations, head trips, or a "meat-market" atmosphere. I've always been slightly jealous that singles bars sprout up on almost every corner. I always wondered, where do other people go to make friends and meet new people?

What if you don't drink? Or, what if you are not single, or, what if you are simply looking to have a wonderful connection but not quite ready to meet someone wanting to "begin a relationship"? Singles bars just don't seem to be the optimal atmosphere for heart-full connection, where people meet just as they are, seeing deeply into one another, in the moment.

Wouldn't it be fun to be able to do this, learn new skills about how to learn hot, yummy new skills, connect, make new friends, and, do all this without any expectations?

My last point: I just came back from New York City where we had a phenomenally fun time! What I'm finding, every time I present, is that people love integrating the Kashmiri Shaivist Tantric principles that underlie the Expanded Lovemaking that I teach. It adds so much depth to what we are practicing, and I promise to keep adding more!

Stay tuned, and please, if at all possible join us, everyone: singles, couples, "undecideds", and those who defy all labels: We want you!

Love, In ever-expanding bliss.

Patti

Dr. Patti Taylor

http://www.expandedlovemaking.com/

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

Daniel Odier, Kashmiri Shaivist Tantric Master

Daniel Odier, a renowned Kashmiri Shaivist Tantric master, speaks this week, eloquently, directly, movingly about topics ranging from how to integrate the male and female within ourselves, to how to live a Tantric life -- a blissful one -- in today's fast-paced world.

I have listened to this interview four or five times already, and each time I hear something new. Yesterday, when I heard it, I was contemplating the part where he talked about how each of us needs to integrate the male and female within ourselves.

I realize how much time I spend trying to fulfill my role as a woman. There's nothing wrong with this, but, in doing so, I don't allow myself a full expression of the potential of my being.

Can I tap into the desire to create more balance in my life, and my energy, so that I can have a balance in male and female energies inside myself? Where I get too feminine, can I can look to see where qualities of strength and clarity can bring me into a gorgeous kind of “felt sense” of ecstatic balance?

And, can I do this without falling into any judgment of myself in any way? Loving myself in all my expressions of myself ?

Every time I hear this interview I am deeply, deeply inspired. Words don't fully express my gratitude that Daniel Odier shared his wisdom on my show -- but let me try: thank you Daniel! I invite everyone all to listen with all of their heart, mind, body, and spirit to this deep and inspiring sharing of wisdom.

Daniel Odier, A Tantric Path to Embodied Bliss:

http://www.personallifemedia.com/podcasts/expanded-lovemaking/expanded-lovemaking-show.html

Dr. Patti Taylor,
www.ExpandedLovemaking.com
Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

Masterful, Delightful, Extended Clitoral Stimulation

Do check out my latest podcast with Drs. Steve and Vera Bodansky: Experiencing Quantum Leaps in Pleasure with Extended Massive Orgasms.

Drs. Steve and Vera Bodanksy, the authors of Extended Massive Orgasm, are Doctors of Sensuality and masters of what they teach. Very few us of will ever meet Steve and Vera in person; it’s just a “law of numbers” thing. Too few of them, too many of us. This is one of those times when I am so thankful for Internet podcasting.

There is no substitute imaginable for hearing Steve and Vera share personally about the art of giving a woman exquisite pleasure via clitoral stimulation, and, now, with podcasting, you can practically sit across from them as they go point by point over what it takes to GIVE and RECEIVE exquisite genital pleasure. (You can use many of these same techniques on a man’s cock, too.)

So here’s the point… these two people deliver the information in a way that alternates between being intimate, informative, tender, funny, and profound. I say, more, more, more of this kind of information! And, go listen for yourself… this is great stuff!

Kudos to Steve and Vera, who open their teachings – and themselves – to us so generously. The information is great and I feel turned on, wanting to go home and DO it – which makes it even twice as good! So, do check out Drs. Steve and Vera Bodansky: Experiencing Quantum Leaps in Pleasure with Extended Massive Orgasms.

http://www.personallifemedia.com/podcasts/expanded-lovemaking/episode009-steve-vera-extended-massive-orgasm.html

Yours, Dr. Patti

www.ExpandedLovemaking.com

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor

Tues, May 29, 7:45 pm San Fran. Event

Next Tuesday, May 29, I'm inviting all of you who live anywhere in or around the Bay Area of San Francisco to come join me at the One Taste Urban Retreat Center for an evening of Expanded Lovemaking:

In this evening of “Expanded Rapture”, you will enter the world of expanded relating, in order to experience: * Shifting into your “expanded lover” in just moments – and attracting your partner to go there with you. * Giving and receiving a present, orgasmic touch, from the first moment of contact, for as long as the two of you connect. Light touching of faces, hands, and hugging.

Singles or couples are welcome, with optional partner switching for the experiential portion.

7:45pm - 9:45pm $15.

Here is the link for finding out further information; http://www.onetastesf.com/desc.php?id=21.

I hope to see as many of us there as we can, for having fun, building energy and sharing love!

~~~Patti

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

Live: Sun. Night 5/13 Internet Broadcast

Dear Expanded Lovemakers,

Join us this Sunday evening, as Alan Steinfeld of New Realities Events interviews me on the subjects of Kashmiri Shaivist Tantra, its profound relationship to Expanded Orgasm, my unusual past, and my present passions…

And hey – if you aren’t sure what Kashmiri Shaivist Tantra is… well… all the more reason to tune in Sunday evening. This information rocks! Gift yourself with discovering more about this form of Tantra, which deepens your sensual practice, and seeds you with principles that take you to ever higher levels of lovemaking mastery.

www.bbsradio.com Go to LATE NIGHT: LIVE TALK RADIO

The Program is New Realities
6:30pm California time
9:30pm NY Time

Alternate address access: http://www.bbsradio.com/bbs_late_night.php

Speaking of “rocks”, this past weekend I had a rollicking good time with 80 or so wildly enthusiastic tantricas, dakas, and dakinis as I presented Sweetrocking and its application to entering transcendent states, at the Sacred Sexuality Conference in Sedona, Arizona.

‘Til Sunday nite, and hoping you can join us,

Yours, in Ever-Expanding Love,

Patti

Dr. Patti Taylor, www.ExpandedLovemaking.com

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

NYC EO Weekend June 22-24

Dear Expanded Lovemakers,

I am returning to New York City the weekend of June 22-24 to teach an Expanded Orgasm weekend. Friday night will be a discussion and party event on Expanded Orgasm and its deep Tantric connections. Saturday will be appropriate for singles and couples, and Sunday will be for couples only. Space is limited for the Sunday event, so register early to let us know for sure that you can make it and to reserve your spot.

We'll have details on the www.ExpandedLovemaking.com website shortly, and also at www.SexySpirits.com. You can email Anton if you need more information, Anton@sexyspirits.com. If you've never done one of my events before, you are in for a treat as they are a lot of fun! And if you've done more than one, you'll know they're never the same experience twice.

I am planning to come back to NY to teach an advanced course for which this class (or one of our previous week-end classes) is a prerequisite. Certificates will be issued for all playshops you attend.

By now I’m guessing you’ve checked out my audio podcasts at www.personallifemedia.com (The Expanded Lovemaking Show). I just can’t wait until you hear some of our upcoming interviews – they're making “expanded org*smic” history for sure. Plus, I'm on the verge of submitting not one, but two books to my agent.

I'm starting to teach in the SF Bay Area as well, and planning a much more in-depth certification program, as well as preparing various information products.

In these days when we're all so busy, it's a rare and precious opportunity when we can come together and share energy. In one moment and one touch, a universe of information can be communicated. Transformation happens quickly with touch, especially in a room filled with transformative, touch-full energy and enthusiastic fellow seekers. There is no substitute imaginable for being together in person.

Finally, I will have a few extra time slots surrounding my arrival and departure, starting Wednesday the week before and ending the Tuesday after the weekend. If you would like to arrange some private time with me, please let me know as soon as possible. I am certain to book up very quickly.

In Ever-Expanding Love,

Patti

Dr. Patti Taylor,

www.ExpandedLovemaking.com

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

Margot Anand - As Vibrant as Ever

Hi All,

My interview with Margot Anand is now available. Wow~

I just interviewed Margot in January, and remember feeling postively, absolutely dazzled in her presence.

Her clarity, her freedom, her strength of intention, her way of being, her laughter … her carefree-ness, her genius… her beauty … and of course, her wisdom, are just some of what hit me in cycles, when not coming at me all at once. She is truly a radiant being, loving, generous, and also quite artistic, vulnerable, and real.

Now… how would you like a chance to meet Margot? You can, by checking out our interview, just up, on www.PersonalLifeMedia.com and the Expanded Lovemaking Show.

I just listened to it once more, and felt all those same things yet again. I was totally *turned on* by what she had to say!

Tantra can supercharge your whole life, and your partner’s life, with orgasmic energy. I love hearing Margot share how bringing orgasmic energy up the body will change the way you experience not just sex, but love, and even life!

Plus… she shares freely about her own life and the new directions she wants to take.

Do tune into these vibes for a super-inside look at Tantra today!

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

Sweetrock in Red Rock, Sedona, (AZ), May 4-6

Dear Expanded Lovemakers,

Last night started out like any other normal night. My partner came over to practice Sweetrocking with me, since I am going to be presenting a workshop in Sedona (at the Sacred Sexuality Conference, May 4-6) on Sweetrocking. We had dinner, enjoyed the sunset, and planned our practice.

Have you been to one of our groups where we covered Sweetrocking? It's a way of entering a mutually pleasurable resonant system. It's immensely enjoyable in itself, but you can also use it to trigger orgasmic states.

Up we went to practice. As per my instructions, he started with a larger part of my body - rocking my hips with a certain kind of kinesthetic “listening”. However, you can ‘sweetrock’ someone from almost any body location, under the right circumstances. “Okay, now,” I said, “lower your energy (the energy that you’re kinesthetically applying) to about 1/5 of what it was. Now, take that extra energy and send it into me instead of onto me.”

“Visualize it going throughout my entire body. It has to feel good to you as well as to me, and that means you'll be feeling me as well as you at all times. After you start doing it, the words will make sense, but possibly not before.”

We started experimenting with several positions to get it just perfect. Every two people have certain co-resonant vibrational frequencies. When discovered and enhanced, they can send you both into this amazing universe of energy. In minutes he had found our resonance. Suddenly, the words made total sense – we were transported into sweetrocking bliss! What a wonderful time we had! It totally enhanced our next activity….

Does this sound interesting? If so, and you can make it to Sedona, I'll be presenting Sweetrocking there! This hot new technology of pleasure can be given non-genitally as well as genitally. It really helps to feel it for your-self! The conference is going to be a huge amount of fun. Here’s the link: http://www.sedonatemple.com/events.html.

Love and blessings to all,

Dr. Patti Taylor

www.ExpandedLovemaking.com

ps Save the Dates for New York weekend, June 22-24!

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

My New Audio Podcast

Today I have some exciting news! I've been having an incredibly good time working with a new network, Personal Life Media, putting together The Expanded Lovemaking Show. I have been interviewing some of the most amazing people in the pleasure industry, and learning some of the most exciting secrets they have to share in the areas of how to have better vibrancy of connection, lovemaking, and orgasms - just to name a few topics.

The Personal Life Media Network launches on March 19. I want to invite you personally to check out our shows. You can go to www.personallifemedia.com and click on my show, Expanded Lovemaking, to read more about the description and some of our exciting guest lineup.

My suggestion? Go today check it out, and bookmark the page. See if you want to subscribe. Or, you could go right into iTunes, look up and bookmark Expanded Lovemaking. You can hear the first show now - it's me, being interviewed about Expanded Orgasm.

In addition, I have a fabulous co-host Anton who does shows on Expanded Lovemaking every other week. And, I've had the chance to listen to lots of other shows that are going to open too! Personal Life Media has designed all its shows for people seeking personal growth, evolution, health, success, and pleasure - how cool is that?

Personal Life Media is a great network – and we are giving a great party! You can go to Itunes, search on Personal Life Media, and, under Publishers, check out all their entire lineup while you're at it. Please, do join us!!!

Yours, as ever,
Dr. Patti Taylor
www.ExpandedLovemaking.com

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.