Win a Free Copy of "She Comes First"!

Arouse and Thrill Her through Foreplay, Coreplay, and Moreplay: Dr. Patti Talks to Ian Kerner, Celebrated Sex Therapist

Hi, I am Dr. Patti Taylor, of Expanded Lovemaking.com. On this week’s Expanded Lovemaking show, hear Dr. Ian Kerner, celebrated sex therapist, and best-selling author of She Comes First, discuss how to create juicier sexual connections.

Plus, I am having a special contest for this show: you can win a copy of She Comes First simply by posting a blog entry that I like. (Hint: make it cool, revealing, and/or interesting, and a response to what Ian is saying).

I will pick my 10 favorite blog entries, and by the start of next month, September 1, the writers of my 10 favorite posts will be selected to receive their very own copies. Here are some possible blog post topics:

What have you found are the different mental stimuli women truly crave most?

Do you like fantasies? How do you add them in to your bedroom scenarios?

Do you and your partners celebrate oral sex, and is this something you’d like more of in your relationship?

Do you have recommendations when you use your tongue, gums, hands, fingers, minds, eyes, and even vocal cords, and specific strokes during oral pleasuring?

Could less stimulation on your lover’s pussy ever feel better than more?

Or, make up your own post – it’s open season on this contest, as long as you are tasteful enough for me to print what you say!

Listen to Ian Kerner’s Show here:
http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/expanded-lovemaking/episode015-ian-kerner-foreplay-coreplay-moreplay.html


Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

A Taste of Sex: Listen, Love, and Vote for Them!!!

Hi, I’m Dr. Patti Taylor of Expanded Lovemaking.com. Have you checked out the A TASTE OF SEX Series here on our very own PersonalLifeMedia.com network? If you like the Expanded Lovemaking Show you just might like this show as well.

Now, THEY ARE UP FOR A PODCAST AWARD, and it would be so cool if they won one! It’s a major, prestigious award. You can vote every day until Aug. 15! You’ll vote here: http://podcastawards.com/ and it’s a one-click easy process.

Their shows represent freedom of speech, and a celebration of life. In this world of boring mainstream media, I count my blessings when I can get access to unique voices, every single time I can. I have met so many wonderful friends, just from listening to A TASTE OF SEX.

I have tuned in, and I have come to know them. As members of a fascinating sex-positive community, they’ve shared struggles and successes and hot juicy sexual encounters, all via their raw, open-hearted podcasts. And, as you might imagine, as I come to know people, I come to love and understanding, too.

They have an erotic poetry and prose reading and a community “tell-all”, and in both shows they model what it’s like to bare your soul to sensuality, sexuality, consciousnesses, love, and life, in a multitude of voices and exquisite moments of life, both mundane and amazing.

In the Visiting Guest Series, I learn about other leaders and teachers. They have dreams, and to hear them and what makes them tick, inspires me to be the far-out crazy broad I am, whether I like or not! (I do, I do…, most of the time.) Company is always nice, though, don’t you think?

Because of A TASTE OF SEX, I have more love and inspiration in my life… yes, because of this homespun, exotic, erotic, totally fun programming.

So check out their shows… and if you are so moved, just get it: Your vote REALLY counts! Go to www.PersonalLifeMedia.com and then, A TASTE OF SEX. Enjoy!

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

Sexy Prostate Massage for Men

Prostate Massage: a Fun and Sexy Path to Pleasure: Dr. Patti Talks to Erika Thost, M.D., Founder of SexyProstate.com

Why should women be the only ones having delicious, mind-opening, body-warming, heart-tingling prostate massages? So many men would love to have one, and either don’t know they exist, don’t know how to ask for one, or, don’t know that their girlfriend just might be willing… or be totally delighted… to give them one.

Whether you are new to this subject of male prostate massage, also known as the “male g-sot”, or are just looking for a rollicking-good-fun discussion between Doctors Erika and Patti, (which alone is worth listening in for), stop on by and learn how you might expand your range of potential pleasures!

Check out learning way more about this very pleasurable gift to men — and to the givers of this delight as well! –Yours, Dr. Patti Taylor, of ExpandedLovemaking.com

Listen Here: www.personallifemedia.com/podcasts/expanded-lovemaking/episode014-erika-thost-prostate-massage.html


Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

More Sexy Talk!

How good can it get? (Try me, try me…)

Seriously, first I post this below, and then, I discover, one of our *very* talented co-hosts, Dr. Lori Buckley, did a show on “Sexy Talk” last week.

How cool is that?

Click here to listen: http://www.personallifemedia.com/podcasts/minds-of-men/episode011-mark-phelan-sexy-talk.html

Dr. Lori Buckley and friend, Mark Phelan address the topic of sexy talk and the power of words. They discuss text sex, and give some tips on how to use words to enhance your sex life.

Emjoy!

Dr. Patti Taylor,
www.ExpandedLovemaking.com



Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

Ready for an Adventure?

When’s the last time you turned took off your shoes, locked the door, and took an hour to sink into a fabulous travelogue that took you places you’ve always wanted to go? Even if you can’t remember, I’m guessing that it’s something you’d like to do, basically, any day of the week.

Now, when’s the last time you took the phone off the hook, lit some candles, put on your favorite music, and took the time to learn all about your own body? (Not to mention your partner’s body on some other day!)

If this is something you’d like to do, and haven’t, it may be simply that you don’t know how. Sheri Winston will show and encourage! She’s a registered nurse, a sexual educator and counselor—in her own terms, a WomanCraft teacher and a “pelvic priestess”. Plus, she’s warm and fun to listen to!

Anton Diaz draws her out in this amazing show which inspired me deeply.

Impressed by Sheri’s presence on the show, I went to her website, www.sheriwinston.com, where I found a virtual motherlode of articles that will help guide anyone wanting to learn more about the maps to orgasmic pleasure: maps of the clitoris, stages of female arousal , “puffing and pumping the bulbs”, and SO MUCH more.

There are over 35 articles, and links to other websites as well! You’ll want to bookmark this page.

This show is a total treasure. You and your partner will delight in hearing Anton and Sheri “dance together” as they encourage and inspire all of us!

Dr. Patti Taylor,
www.ExpandedLovemaking.com

Listen Here to “Wholistic Sexuality” with Anton and Sheri:
http://www.personallifemedia.com/podcasts/expanded-lovemaking/episode013-sheri-winston-wholistic-sexuality.html

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

Oooh, Yes, Talk to Me, Baby

There’s so much I want to cover this week with my clients, some of whom have come hundreds or even thousands of miles to see me. Today, I want to talk about talking. Talking is not a topic in itself, any more than breathing or eating. Talking is simply something that must occur. It is the lubricant of the breakthrough process itself.

For the longest time, I never said a word during sex. Sometimes it was because I didn’t know what to say; other times, I didn’t want to spoil the moment, or hurt my partner’s feelings. Even when my partner would repeatedly encourage me to talk, I would be grateful—yet, I could not, I would not, trust that he was sincere.

“Sure”, I thought, “You think you want to hear what I am saying. But you don’t, not really. If you did, you’d hear an ongoing stream of judgments, complaints, and comparisons, mixed in with general confusion, self-focus, and fear. Trust me….

I am still remembering, quite silently to myself, the old days, and those thoughts: You really don’t want to know. Maybe, maybe, if I knew what to say, or ask for, I would, but I don’t.

And yet, for all my inner dialog, I would also add, still silently, “but please, please, don’t give up asking, I want you to care, I want you to know, I want one day to figure out how to escape from this prison of silence. It’s just that right now, I have no idea how to leave.

Please don’t stop asking me what I want! Who knows, maybe one day, I’ll really figure it out.”

So, for all you strong, silent types out there, here’s my request: learn how to be the strong, communicative type for the one you love. Learn to ask her (or him) questions!

We shy, don’t-know-quite-how-to-ask-for-all-the-delicious-pleasures-we-are-craving, may just be craving the day that you do, so that we can learn to figure out to tell you.

I know I did, and so have lots of others. Learning how to ask, and answer questions, verbally, coupled with some “show and tell”, was a key part of the breakthrough process for me and many of the couples that we work with.

Yours,
Dr. Patti Taylor

www.ExpandedLovemaking.com

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

Connect Fri Eve July 6 in San Fransciso

Dear Expanded Lovemakers,

Are you busy this Friday night, July 6? Do you live in or around San Francisco Bay Area?

I'm inviting you to a fun, educational, and experiential event.

Friday, July 6, 2007
7:45 pm to 10:00 pm, prompt starting time
Downtown San Francisco - 735 Montgomery (at Jackson)
Cost is $15 per person at door.

Connect with current friends and MEET wonderful new ones.

And while you're at it...Learn skills to develop your sensual life with techniques and practices derived from the Kashmiri Shaivist Tantra traditions.


OK, Here's the story: For a long time, I've had a dream that people could find a venue in which to connect with one another, without expectations, head trips, or a "meat-market" atmosphere. I've always been slightly jealous that singles bars sprout up on almost every corner. I always wondered, where do other people go to make friends and meet new people?

What if you don't drink? Or, what if you are not single, or, what if you are simply looking to have a wonderful connection but not quite ready to meet someone wanting to "begin a relationship"? Singles bars just don't seem to be the optimal atmosphere for heart-full connection, where people meet just as they are, seeing deeply into one another, in the moment.

Wouldn't it be fun to be able to do this, learn new skills about how to learn hot, yummy new skills, connect, make new friends, and, do all this without any expectations?

My last point: I just came back from New York City where we had a phenomenally fun time! What I'm finding, every time I present, is that people love integrating the Kashmiri Shaivist Tantric principles that underlie the Expanded Lovemaking that I teach. It adds so much depth to what we are practicing, and I promise to keep adding more!

Stay tuned, and please, if at all possible join us, everyone: singles, couples, "undecideds", and those who defy all labels: We want you!

Love, In ever-expanding bliss.

Patti

Dr. Patti Taylor

http://www.expandedlovemaking.com/

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.