Praises for my “Trained Man”

My partner – as you might expect – is an amazing “trained man” – trained to give me maximum pleasure when we hook up for a date. One aspect I love is his ability to energetically turn on a dime. Case in point: Yesterday was one of those nutty stressful days. He ran around with his hair screaming out in ten directions. He ate cereal with barbeque sauce and didn't notice. He talked in half-sentences because even he didn’t want to listen to himself!

But come time for our date, Mr. Amazing left it all outside the room in one second flat. He knows all too well that every thought and feeling of his goes directly from his mind, through his body, and into mine. I feel all of him: the good, the bad, the neutral, the joyful, and the loving. And he decided he wanted me to feel the good stuff. So, he’d better go get the good stuff from inside of him.

He touched me from the start in this melty way that had me start letting go in seconds, not minutes. He cooed like a dove, bringing us both into a new dimension of feeling and awareness. In minutes, my pussy was throbbing, reaching, and hungering for his touch. Next he teased me. My clit was laughing, dancing, and begging for his attention. Now he shape-shifted into the big old bear who wouldn’t give me what I wanted (okay, just for a little while) before showering me with delicious, all-over, endorphin-rich, blissfully perfected energy reaching me in places I never knew existed! This went on and on. He took me over edge after edge….

Apparently, there is life after stress. An expanded lovemaking life that never ceases to amaze me.

Your, in ever-expanded training… and love!

Dr. Patti
www.ExpandedLovemaking.com

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

Keeping It Smooth

Keeping it Smooth….

Keeping it smooth… is something I also call “continuity of touch”. It is one of the easiest sexual techniques you can to learn to apply to whisk your lover into those legendary and magical places. And it is also one of the nicest of techniques, of course, to receive. It is an excellent technique to start with for bringing someone into a more expanded state of being using physical touch.

What is continuous, anyway? We think usually of continuous as something that is unbroken through time. Smooth, slinky, silky, swishy, glide-y, sexy… continuous feelings evoke sensuous moods. You want to sway your body, dance to the music, let go of the rigid control of the mind, and start to feel the music. Even now, feel the feelings in your being. Are you ready to let this state of “Smoooottthhhhh…..” share the real estate in your consciousness? Just thinking about being smooth has some people naturally begin to let go and relax.

So keep it smooth when you touch your partner, and watch the results of your date go up, up and away! You’ll want to begin by feeling smooth actions in your own body first. Run your hand up and down your own body, so continuously that you don’t stop or even notice little pauses. This can and most likely will take some practice! (Three minutes is more than enough). Once you have this mastered, extend smoothly, sweetly, luxuriously, … continuously… to touch your partner’s arm or face.

What feels good on an arm or face feels just as good on your partner’s genitals. But a few differences do exist between stroking arms and your beloved’s most private parts! Continuous stroking on genitals is a key ingredient to expanding orgasms. However, it’s a little – no, a lot less charge-y to start on your sweetheart’s alluring arm or fabulous face than on her red-hot and possibly throbbing vagina (or his crowning glory), so do take the time to practice continuity on the easy places first! Plus, it’ll turn your partner on like crazy.

Okay, once you’re here, at the nerve-rich clitoris, or g-spot, (for women) or penis and prostate (for men) … remember what you learned! Make your touch continuous and smooth and you’ll find the two of you transported on a bullet train to bliss!

So keep it smooth, baby…, keep it smooth….

Till next time,

Yours in ever sweet, smooth, silky, slithery and sensational Expanding Love,

Dr. Patti
www.ExpandedLovemaking.com

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.