Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Embodying Stillness and Transmitting Essense Course, Aug. 8-9

Dear Expanded Lovemakers,

Every now and then I feel blessed to pass along treasures I have experienced in my own journeys through life.

I recently took this course, and was deeply moved and inspired.

It gave me lots of practical ideas as well as ongoing felt sense experiences on how to be more “in touch” with my own inner landscape, a better toucher to others, and more “in the space, presence, and consciousness of love.”

Charles Ridley is a master teacher of Biodynamic Craniosacral Touch – yay for us, this course is open to everyone interested.

Embodying Stillness and the Art of Transmission through Touch:
A two day immersion into the embodiment of stillness and transmitting essence to another through touch.

Date: August 8-9, 9:30 - 4:00
Location: Rudramandir
Address: 830 Bancroft Way, Berkeley, CA

Phone: 415-342-1149

Cost: $120.00


For more information go to this link:



Dr. Patti

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Announcing "Expand Her Orgasm Tonight": The 21-Day Program for Partners

Dear Expanded Lovemakers,

Giving and receiving orgasmic pleasure is nothing less than a profound lifelong path of learning, ecstasy, and bliss. And like all truly great paths, every step along the way is a complete experience - rich, orgasmic, and totally fulfilling.

I am thrilled to announce the release of my new program,

Expand Her Orgasm Tonight: The 21 Day Program for Partners!

I want people just like you, my readers, to give and receive boundless pleasure, no matter what your starting skill level. Are you ready to go to the next level of sexual mastery, and then way beyond?

I know that everyone can create way more orgasmic fulfillment than they are enjoying today. There is always more! These skills can be learned, and you can experience so much fun, love and bonding in the process of exploring together.

Why learn Expanded Orgasm? When all is said and done, why are we alive, if not to give and receive love, connection, intimacy, pleasure, insight, depth, relaxation, bliss, and more.

To get started, sign-up today for your free juicy "Expand Her Orgasm" mini-course, with no obligation! I'll also send you three free revealing and action-packed pleasure guides.

Just click on the banner on this page... or, go to my website and click on the banner that says “Mind Blowing Tantric Orgasms”.

Here's the link:

This is not just a book but an entire step-by-step program where I share with you everything you need to know to take a woman to new heights of orgasmic ecstasy. It includes eBooks, videos, and audio components.
Follow the links I gave you above to find out more details.

While you’re there, don't forget your free mini-course! It’s a great way to get turned on to what this program is all about. You can always buy Expand Her Orgasm Tonight: The 21-Day Program for Partners, at any time, and still continue receiving the rest of the mini-course lessons.

Life really is full of orgasmic abundance!

Yours in ever-expanding pleasure,

Dr. Patti,

Copyright 2009 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

Tuesday, January 01, 2008

Happy New You!

Dear Expanded Lovemakers,

Have you heard the one where the Zen Monk goes to New York City and orders a hot dog from a vendor? He says, “Make me one with everything”. The vendor makes him a hot dog and takes his money. The monk expects his money back and when he doesn’t get it says, “Where’s my change?” “Ah”, says the vendor “Change comes from within.”

This joke reveals how we much expect the right thing to happen at the right place and time. The same event becomes funny when it’s the right thing at the wrong time.

Aren’t we all just chock-full of thousands of judgments about what’s right and wrong? What if we could just dump those judgments and enjoy every moment – especially during sex?

How cool would that be, since, when it comes to sex and pleasure, right and wrong events usually do not lead to harmless laughter, but often to more serious developments, like shutting down, embarrassment, trauma, hurt, and fear. Plus, we quit having fun with sex.

Have you got lots of judgments right this very nano-second about sexuality – yours, mine, and everyone else’s? Are you wondering, “Wow. I’d love to drop my judgments about sex. But how?”

AH!!! Here’s the true secret of enlightenment: It’s as close as a subtle shift away. (In other words, enlightened sex is not to be found in with some guru in the Himalayas…. It’s in a Hot Dog Vendor!) Okay… just kidding on this one.

Seriously, though. You don’t need to go to the Himalayas…. It’s all here, in your own, simple, amazing attitude about fun. Just keep asking yourself, would you rather be right, or have fun?

So the next time your lover slips on a banana peel – (say it’s *your* greased clit or cock), and their hand flies, on a fumble, up your nose… well, did you know that the nose is full of erectile tissue? If your nose knows this isn’t the place to be, solicit their slithering digits to slide slippery-slope down to your lips! Aha…. more erectile tissue! Now maybe lips are more to your liking (and licking)? Hmm, perhaps, now’s the time to become one with everything… wink, wink….starting with that friendly finger fondling your galactic smile!

Happy New You! To all my Dear Readers,

In Expanded Laughter,

Dr. Patti

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

Thursday, November 29, 2007

Mantak Chia Opens Our Mind/Body Consiousness

Hi, this is Dr. Patti Taylor of, and I am so thrilled to have this interview with Mantak Chia. Mantak Chia is a fixture in our culture, but in a slightly "small" way relatively to his total message. He is the one who for years has been telling men, to withhold ejaculation, and circulate that energy (and that semen!) up through the body instead! You can (and should) circulate precious this orgasmic energy up through your body, mind, heart and spirit, rather than "spend it" by letting it leave your body.

Of course he says a lot more than that. In fact, he has an entire cosmology or how to live an orgasmic and loving life.

It’s so typically “Western”-consciousness that we equate him with this one concept on of withholding semen, when what he talks about is an entire way of living, eating, thinking, and breathing, (for both men and women) … and, of course, when he includes making love and generating orgasmic energy as a big part of his overall conversation.

Join us as he talks about this, and so much more, on this podcast.

Yes…it’s about so much more than whether you ejaculate (as a man) or not.

So… become global. Open your mind and hear what this brilliant master has to say.

Oh, and check out some of his DVD’s while you are at it… they are wonderful. I especially love the ones on Sexual Alchemy, though, I admit, I haven’t seen them all yet! We list them on our episode page for Mantak Chia's show. Or, go to

Once you’ve listened to him, then see what works for you in your body.

Overall, I am sure you will feel totally enriched for having heard this brilliant man.

Listen Here:

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

Tuesday, November 13, 2007

Reclaim those Sweet, Loving Feelings Again…

How? Through what? Compassionate Nonviolent Communication?

Hi, I’m Dr. Patti Taylor of, and most people tell me this: I thought you just slammed the door or made rude remarks when you wanted to get your point across! Then you annoyed people and started new relationships. (Put this all in reverse to describe what people do to you.)

This may sound funny…. If it weren’t so true. Then of course it’s tragic.

And it’s more heart-breaking when you realize the consequences of poor communication around intimate communication: hurt feelings, that lead to feeling traumatized, shut down, unattractive, and more.

Wouldn’t you like to reverse this trend? Is it possible?

Wouldn’t you like to feel loved, met, understood, and as a result, more open, warm, and sexy?

Imagine the hot, loving, or deeply caring sex you used to have when you felt you were really, truly, connecting. You can feel that way again in a much shorter time possible than you ever imagined!

Find out how in our show on Compassionate Communication with Lori Grace Star and Scott Catamas.

Listen Here:

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.


Monday, October 29, 2007

Can You Come Just *Thinking* About It?

Hi, I am Dr. Patti Taylor of

I grew up with mottos like, “What you see is what you get”. “Seeing is believing”. “If you can’t feel it, it isn’t real”.

This kind of thinking means that an orgasm we are having in our head alone isn’t really happening to us, even if it happens to be feeling really amazingly delicious!

This type of rationale goes on a fender-bender when thousands of people start reporting “inner-mind/body” orgasms (which I guess are the opposite of out-of-body experiences, you might say!).

Have you had one, or several? If so, would you be willing to share what yours was like? I shared my experience on this week’s podcast with Dr. Barry Komisaruk, and I’ll give the link below.

You can do so here, in our comments section. We’d love to hear.

Or, if you’re feeling really virtuous, perhaps you’d like to contribute to making the world a better place? Dr. Barry is doing research to help spine-injured patients find new ways to experience orgasm.

He is seeking volunteers who can “think off” and are willing to come to New York to participate in his research study. You can write to him for further information at this address:

What a good cause, more pleasure for people with a serious injury.

Wishing everyone more pleasure. I know you’ll get lots of ideas about how to have more in this fabulous podcast!

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

Friday, October 12, 2007

New Events, 10/20 and 10/28

As you may have noticed I am offering more these days. Why? We teach what we need to learn, I always say. So what is there to learn about making love, and using this information to go into expanded orgasmic states, you might ask of me, since I probably do it more than almost anyone I know?

Everything. It’s not about what is being taught. It’s about being in the experience. Each gathering is like a sacred puja, or ceremony, where we use our collective energies to raise one another, and ourselves, and our awareness, in order to expand our bliss and bliss consciousness to places we never dreamed possible. And that is always an infinite journey.

So here is what is planned:

AH: Awakening Hearts: Saturday October 20th. 7pm to 10pm. In San Franscisco.
Last month's gathering was REALLY fun and connective!
So, come join a group of juicy cultural creatives, as we awaken our capacity to feel more joy, aliveness, and bliss!

For more info click on link:

Another evening: Sun., October 28th, 7 -10 pm in Corte Madera: Expanded Tantric Lovemaking, with optional potluck beforehand at 6 pm:
Here I am share some of the information that I have been presenting in New York, and introduce you to what I will be teaching in my upcoming playshops. You’ll learn more about how to expand your sensual life with newly refined practices derived from the Kashmiri Shaivist Tantra traditions. For more info click here:

What are people are saying about Ah! Awakening Hearts?

*Patti and Don created a delightful, heartfelt space that was very safe and felt like home.
*The connecting exercises sparked my intuition and put me in touch with the moment.
*The activities of the evening helped me to explore the delicate balance of honoring boundaries and taking risks. I found that asking permission allowed more intimacy.
*Thank you for creating such a safe space to me to explore Sacred
Intimacy with my self and others. t reminded me that the essence of Tantra is spiritual awakening.
*It was more than I expected. I left the event with a feeling of deep peace and fullness in my Heart.

Finally, check out my podcasts! We have some great ones coming up, including Mantak Chia, Lori Grace and Scott Catamas, and Stan Grof. Visit my website, under Podcasts, to learn more about how to download right into Itunes.
Or, go to
Yours in ever-expanding bliss,

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

Friday, October 05, 2007

Have You Heard Living Dialogues This Week?

Hi, this is Dr. Patti Taylor of, and I want to get on my soapbox for a minute, okay?

I just love Living Dialogs! It’s a podcast on the Personal Life Media Network. I literally await each week’s show with true curiosity. What has Duncan Campbell created for us this week?

Every podcast has a way of changing my life. They are that good! But recently, Joseph Chilton Pearce has been on for three whole shows, talking about culture, violence, children, the language of the heart, how it connects to the brain, and the biology of transcendence.

What do I love? Okay, it’s academic in parts. But Pearce lays it all out:
We are universally divine, but with cultural overlays, are “programmed” to forget this, and to embrace violence… and of course, this will show up in our lovemaking as well as in our children and all other aspects of our society.

This information tracks perfectly with what I teach — and believe — about learning to become a better lover. Underneath it all, we are have the potential to become precious, fabulous lovers, just waiting for a chance to express ourselves and learn how to love even more.

Pearce’s explanations about what we can do about our cultural conditioning… not what you may think… are refreshing and inspiring. And mind-opening.

Wow. Do I love this show. And this week was just another in a string of hits. Thanks, Duncan.

This show is in three parts…. lucky us! So I am just giving the link to his page on Personal Life Media.

And, oh yes, thank you to Personal Life Media, who makes ALL of this content get out to us Lovemakers, who happen to be parents, children ourselves, and, of course, divine beings underneath the programming. Thank you, PLM!

Listen to Living Dialogs Here:

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.

Tuesday, October 02, 2007

Date Change from 10/6 to 10/28 and an Invitation

Dear Expanded Lovemakers:

After some deliberation, we decided to reschedule our class at Celebrations of Love from from October 6 to Sunday, October 28.

There is a conflict with a dance event that was turned into a fundraiser for a very special person in the COL community. To support that cause we felt the best thing to do is to reschedule our event to another night.

I look forward to seeing you on the 28th!!

In other news, I just got back from the the Podcast and New Media Expo full of lots of new ideas, so hold on as I upgrade and modernize my site and the way I do things around here ... even my email! All for your benefit, of course! The customer... ahem... audience... ahem....ahem... even client... is now the "participant"! I love this!

So, please, let me know your thoughts about what you'd like to hear more of, what you don't understand about my site, or even, just drop me a line and introduce yourselves and let me know what you love learning (or love to learn) about making love!

And I'll be doing way more to make this easier for you because I am really interested and curious, as well as grateful for your participation.

Yours, in ever-expanding love,

Patti (aka Dr. Patti Taylor) -Check out my You Tube Videos on my site
for computer access to my podcast... I now have 21 shows! including Daniel Odier, Margot Anand, Ian Kerner, Mantak Chia (coming soon) and many more amazing guests!

Or just go right into Itunes and search for "Expanded Lovemaking" ... we're currently the top-rated show in our network -- we got approximately 40,000 downloads last month, after 6 months "on the e-waves", which is amazing. for my blog... which you can sign up to... (look in the bottom right hand corner where it says, "Subscribe in a reader"). It will come right to your email and comes out much more frequently than this e-zine. We discuss events, shows, and hot juicy stuff.

PS Please... Can you think of friends that would enjoy what we're doing? If so, would you be wiling to pass the word along about what we're up to?

Invite them to take one small step, like to check out one of my 21 podcasts, one that's really touched you personally, perhaps, or sign up to my events list... we have so many exciting new show, events, and articles planned! Even forwarding this email would be great.

There is no substitute for word of mouth. If you are enjoying what I am doing, then, your words are worth thousands of dollars to me!!! Millions, even. I'd love to see this show reach 100,000 downloads, which is where it will start being really commercially viable. Your support would mean a lot.

PSS: Almost all the guests on my audio podcast say that if more people practiced Expanded Lovemaking the world would be a better place in so many ways. Those of you who listen know of the many beautiful ways they've mentioned.

So... why do you listen? And, do you think the consciousness of the planet would shift if there were way more Expanded Lovemakers out there making love all over the planet?

Thanks in advance! Xoxoxoxoxo to all.

Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Share in an Intimate Counseling Session

This week is very special because I am giving two students very explicit advice on how to better their practice of Expanded “O”.

We cover:
1) What can men and especially women do to “settle into” a sensual pleasuring date when they feel that nervous energy… even when they really want to have that sexy, delicious connection with their partner?
2) How can men give women that sense of security, grounding, and presence, and communicate all this through their touch, while giving them contact?
3) What specific secrets can a man discover to make his stroking be even more masterful?
4) How can couples practice these arts, without confusing between “practice” and “lovemaking”
5) How can a woman know if she’s experiencing female amrita (emissions), and, what’s a good way to give one to a woman?

So tune into this show if you want to listen in on a free private session with me! We do go into detail, detail, and more detail!

Also, this would be a great time to subscribe in Itunes. And, if you love the show, please consider giving it it a five star review. That helps I-tunes notice and publicize it! And that helps tremendously in supporting our show to get more visibility.

If you need instructions on how to download the podcast, go to my website, www.ExpandedLovemaking,com, under Podcasts, for more detailed instructions.

Here's the link:

Copyright 2007 Patricia H. Taylor, PhD. All Rights Reserved.